HOW HARD IT ACTUALLY IS
Getting hushed every time, whenever one raises its voice against the child abuse or harassment. Child abuse is not always to the extreme cases like rape, it also includes the gestures, signs, acts or teasing a person does to innocents.
Kids that hardly know how to express normal things why wouldn’t they be stuck or hesitate in explaining the mental torture they face and that’s why they chosen for, because of the lack of knowledge and confidence. In case he or she gets successful in explaining, often they are compelled to lower their voice against these devils.
Child, if somehow gathers itself, raises its voice to tell the family he or she doesn’t get the support because of the person the voice is raised or blamed or complained he is the one who has been the family friend for so long and has some really unforgettable favors. Later those favors on a family are favored back with their frustration silently.
Few of the families prefer to be silent just because of the sake of family respect. Many of the abusers are those who are from close family members, this is the reason why children become the victim of their frustration without any fear of long engagement or responsibility.
RESPONSE OF FAMILY
Sometimes family doesn’t take them serious or if they do, several reasons stop them. Mostly the reason why family doesn’t raise voice is because of the fear of society or of the future of child but we cannot deny that many of them are those who keep their mouth zipped because of the abuser’s gracious kindness of the past.
Mostly if the family decide to take stand they doubt that no one is going to help and believe them by saying kid is nonsense to say all or making the family remember the favors and blaming them as ungrateful. That’s surely a solid reason which cannot be judged by anyone except the family.
LIVING BETWEEN THE PREDATORS
Ever imagined that guy who abused shares the same relatives and gatherings as your? Weird! Ever imagined the guy who abused is from close ones? Disturbing?
Let’s make it more! Ever thought what if he shares same roof? Yes being part of the family!
Even after the years passed one still has to face him daily but behave like he or she doesn’t care about his existence, really not.
For ignoring him since long and being called a rude person or frequently asked why don’t you talk to him, or if have talked, why in such a rude way?
These questions are acceptable than murdering the self-respect and respecting him. It’s not the end but when the same person talks about respect and manners that’s the real tasks to control victim’s emotions. Not because you are weak but because one has worked a lot since years to be strong and forget that phase and stand strong to continue life with confidence instead of raising it after years when he or she can prove with proper explanations.
It doesn’t mean that incident never hurts but it’s just that the victim has chosen and prioritized life over that suffering.
Sadly we can talk freely about the adultery but not to the ways in which adultery is practiced over innocents. Talking about such incidents one faces criticism for speaking up. Mental state or the pressure of the favors cannot be judged but again not always this step is supposed to be appreciated in very exceptional cases kids manage to gather themselves stronger than before instead of thinking that why he was not helped to punish the monster.
It is easy to say that move on until you have been asked for it. Life always tests with various challenges but it’s up to the persons that in which direction he takes it either to keep in mind that suffering for lifetime or keeping in mind that suffering and still moving on.